Why do we stay in horrible relationships? Do we just a so much hope that things are gonna get better? But we just end up losing ourselves! I wanna just die
I think as human being, we tend to want to fix on other people what we can fix on ourselves. We’re all broken in some ways, but we decide to try to fix someone else so we can forget about our own problems. That’s just how we are, but I have a good new for you: We’re all the same. We just hope we’ll be able to fix our abuser, and then it’ll be a good relationship. But hey; YOU CAN NOT FIX PEOPLE. YOU CAN NOT. You can only fix yourself.
And I try to always remind myself that: I didn’t lose myself, I just became someone else. I just matured and learned and grew up and got stronger and it’ll help me for future difficulties in my life.
It’s all about perception.
It was not being abused and humiliated, it was the fight of your life and if you’re still there, let me tell you something: you won.
You’re not a victim, you’re a survivor. And I think that’s a beautiful thing to be.
There will always be bad days, there will always be nightmares, there will always be fears. But there will be even more pride, there will be even more good things, there will be even more things to accomplish.